I'm so excited for you sigmagrrl!!!!!! I had a situation that wasn't TOO similar, but...My best friend that I had grown up with.. We were friends from birth, same type of family situation (both adopted, both only children, etc). Anyhow. We'd talked on and off since I moved to IN from NY and I finally saw her last year after nine years...I thought it would be some magical awesome thing...But no...Turns out she turned into somewhat of a bia

.. Which really sucks b/c the reason I went to see her was because I was supposed to be her maid of honor...Well then I find out, after I fly to NY, that I'm the freaking DJ at the reception, because 'they didn't feel like paying to hire a real one' - - which they actually told me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh well... Point being, things may not be exactly how you hope they are, so take them slow and hope for the best!!!!! AND CONGRATS!