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Originally posted by MTSUGURL
KSig RC - She said she feels like she bitches at him - sounds like she realizes that's not great. Don't you think you're being a little too harsh? At least she's telling him her expectations, which a lot of girls don't do. Most of us expect you to just know. And surprise - if he's a good guy, these aren't unrealistic. She's not asking to come before his friends, just to be a priority and have time with him. Spending time together is one of the points in having a relationship.
AlphaSigLana, have you talked to him yet, or how are things going?
Crystal
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I'm not trying to be a douche bag here, just trying to (bluntly) point out that there are sides to this she's not looking at, or has and hasn't told us about. If it came off as harsh, well, that wasn't the intention, but that's how it is.
Remember - there's three sides to every story - hers (which we have), his, and the truth.
In an aside - Lana, you probably shouldn't be worried about not being married after college, and your lack of 'experience'. Everyone progresses at their own rate - however, use even short-term relationships as building blocks toward future improvement.
Listen to what people have said - EVEN IF IT'S NOT WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR.
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