Just a little sad
Hi Sorors,
I'm feeling a little down and out today and I need some sisterly advise. There is this gentleman who I have been dating since January. He has been very supportive and understanding throughout my entire intake process. He's a frat so he was able to understand what I was going through. Now that it's all said and done and my journey into sisterhood is complete he seems to have a change of attitude. First of all, he and I don't live in the same city (we're an hour apart) so our time together is very valuable and precious. Prior to my crossing he would always make an extra effort to call to check on me and it was nothing for him to drive down to see me. Now it has all changed. We haven't talked in over a week. He hasn't returned my phone calls and the one time that he did call me he didn't leave a message telling me the reason for his lack of attention. If it were not for Caller ID I would have never known that he called. Immediately after my crossing my chapter was taking on a lot of different things so I was very busy. He knew this, but he also knew that I would go an extra mile to include him in my life. It obviously wasn't enough because the last conversation that we did have he was making a big deal about me spending too much time with my sorors and not enough time at home "waiting on his call." I feel like this sorors, and tell me if I'm wrong, AKA is all about business and that is what I joined to do...take care of business. He's in a frat and if they were handling THEIR business he would be just as busy as I am with my sorors. I am much too busy and too beautiful to be sitting around whining about a man. I have made the effort to reach out to him more than enough. I don't make it a habit of calling a man more than twice without him returning my phone calls (which he didn't). What I want to know from you all is this: Should I give it ANOTHER try? Or should I just go ahead and leave it alone so I can move on with my life? My other sorors think that I am being too hard on him, but I don't think that I am. What do you all think? Advice needed soon. Oh yeah, I do miss him...but I know that I can get over that eventually.
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