Should I be insulted?

[SkeeWee14]

Hello Sorors,
I was just sitting here thinking about how people have reacted to me since crossing over
(3/26/00)and I've noticed an obvious change in the attitudes of many people. The truely "surprised" attitudes don't bother me at all. It's really funny considering how so many people assumed that I would go Delta because my best friend is a Delta and I socialize with a lot of Delta's. Anyway, the thing that bothers me the most is the reaction/change in attitude from the men of A Phi A. Prior to my crossing many of the guys never even said as much as hello or even cracked a smile. Since being pinned they are all very friendly and are quick to strike up a conversation. Please don't misunderstand me, I love all of the love and friendship that they extend towards me. I'm just wondering why couldn't they be as friendly and as opene prior to my crossing? It's not as if the first time they ever came into contact with me is after crossing, because I have classes with many of them. I was just wondering if I have the right to be offended by this and if I should call them on their "change of attitude?"