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Trust me, if he says he doesn't want you to visit him, that means he is with another girl. And if you show up, you are going to get yourself into a situation that you really don't want to deal with. I have done this before, and it really made things horrible between us. I also agree with what some of the others have said about moving on. My high school sweetheart and I were together when I started college, and I slowly started to realize that we had nothing in common anymore. He had different plans for what he wanted in life. While it was hard to let go of the 4 + year relationship, I let go and didn't look back for awhile. I stopped hanging out with the people that we hung out with together (they were his friends to start off with), I put everything away relating to us, and I removed his name from my IM list. I basically alienated myself from him to make the transition process easier. Now that I look back at our relationship (it's been over for 3 years), I know that I made the correct decision and that I really didn't feel for him the way that I thought I did. He wasn't the person I loved...I just loved the security of knowing where our relationship stood.
I am assuming that you are a freshman or somewhere early in college. Trust me, you are going to have the best time in the years to come. You will meet many new people and meet plenty of guys to flirt with. Enjoy it while you can. You never know when you will meet the person of your dreams. But if you don't separate yourself from him now, you might just get stuck in the routine of the relationship and hate yourself for passing up the prime years of college.
I hope all of this makes sense. I am writing this at 3 am. Good luck and remember you have your sisters to help you get through the tough times!
Jadey
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