A little bit about how guys think . . .

[James]

So I am hanging out in this Strip Bar and randomly ask this Dancer I just met out for drinks. She agrees and actually shows up.

We have some drinks and do some heavy hooking for 30-45 minutes and then she goes home to her live-in boyfriend.

Ok, there are some important key words and phrases here that guys pick up on immediately.

Dancer (stripper). First time meeting her. Hooking up. And live in boy friend.

You see boys receive bonus points from other boys in different situations, although we might act properly horrified in front of uptight ladies, even though we start winking when she turns her back.

In fact we receive more points usually in direct proportion to how much girls would dissaprove.

So in conversations with anything but a total "girly guy", closet mamas boy, or potential Gay Boy, we usually get high-fives for behaviors that girls get upset about.

In this case I got bonus points for hooking up with a stripper. More points for picking her up at a strip bar (her work, and while working) and more points for it being the first time I met her.

The coup de grace in terms of extra bonus points was sending her home to her live-in boy friend.

This is quite an honest appraisal of how most guys will view these types of situations, even though they may be too timid to admit it in front of girls.

Bottom line: In terms of the "guy code" James wracked up some serious points. Although I am not sure if get extra points because she had size D implants.

I thought I would write this in the spirirt of some of the cheating threads.