Personally, it would mean a great deal to me for my daughter to be a Chi Omega. My father-in-law was a Delt at our university and he initiated my husband, and I think that is just so special. I really would like to think that I won't pressure her, but realistically I probably will. I plan to still be an advisor when she is college-age, and so there will be an obvious bias. If she goes to a school where the Chi Omega chapter is extremely strong like mine was, I will definitely be upset if she goes elsewhere. But if she were to attend a school with a not-so-great chapter or no Chi O chapter then I would be understanding. As far as my son, I hope he looks at Delt but it is pretty much the same deal; I want him to belong to the best fraternity on campus and if that isn't DTD then I support whatever choice he makes. I know my husband will feel the same as he and his identical twin went separate ways and it was fine.
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