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Originally posted by DeltaBetaBaby
Keep in mind, this bride is NOT throwing herself a shower. Her bridesmaids, sisters, friends, or whomever have decided to put together an event. It is not like the bride is going to refuse.
Maybe they don't particularly know that you are not close with the bride anymore, and feel you would be offended without an invite.
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Yea Delta Beta Baby! That's exactly what I was thinking. Besides, why not go to support this woman's second marriage? What if it's her boyfirend's first? Mabye her mother in law to be wants to throw her a party. I see this less as a question of gifts (which many people see as the main part of the shower.. but you can always skimp! The idea is that you are just there, right?), and more as a question of making her second marriage as special as her first. Also, those poor second babies!!! They deserve to have a shower in their honor. I would feel bad for them.
-M