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Old 02-13-2003, 05:26 PM
UKDaisy UKDaisy is offline
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Should I or Not?

Hey guys! I have a huge weight on my heart right now. My really good friend finally talked me into joining her sorority. A group where I know a lot of the older girls and I think highly of them. But I turned in my COB form last semester and although I got a call to come over and see the house again that was it. I never got a call to come to a party or that they would meet me to eat. It was always, "we eat at 5 you can come if you want".

But the worst thing happened last week. During a COB event I went to their table to sign up again and the new girls were there. They completely ignored me!! I asked questions, they didn't answer. I stood there for 45 seconds before anyone said anything to me. It was embarssing.

A group of girls from another sorority noticed me getting ignored and recommended me to do formal recruitment in the fall. The bad part about that is that I'll be a senior, although I do have another year after that and juniors and seniors don't count against quota, and I have band the week of recruitment. So I'd be running back and forth.

I felt more welcomed at the group of girls who weren't recruiting for COB (their sorority had made quota) than I did at the one I wanted to be in. So should I give my first sorority pick another chance and just keep pushing my way in? Or is what the second group did and other sororities did, by asking me to dinner and come and picking me up the way things are suppose to go?

Please help. I really want to join a sorority and get more involved than I already am. Sorry this is so long!

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