Dating dilemma

[ilovemyglo]

Okay, so I need some help from someone away from my situation and none of my sisters are unbiased, so I am turing to you all.
Here I go:
I am dating my 4 exboyfriends all at once, and they all know. I don't need a relationship cause I can't develop one right now.
EX #1 Ernie- We dated for eight months two years ago. I fell madly in love and I am still the only woman he has ever told he loves. We were good friends for months before we dated. One day out of the blue he breaks my heart. His pride wouldn't let him say he was wrong or sorry. He graduates next week and we started talking again as friends awhile back. He tells me he wants to marry me someday, but right now develop a deep friendship. He wants me to come visit him in Montana (I am in KY) and has told me he will fly me out there. He is sweet and we laugh and are close... we have shared a lot and I never really got over what happened with us.
Ex #2- Jack- not my type to date. He is really a wonderful friend but when we dated he was too protective and overbearing cause of a bad breakup. We both were on the rebound but now we are both good friends and have fun together. We are so opposite that it gives us something to always be different and talk about. We also talk about the other people we date a lot to each other. We only dated for four months, but that was almost two years ago (after Ernie)
#3 Todd- My best friend. We dated for a year and a half. I thought we were going to get married. Everyone loves him, hell even I do. But I am not in love with him I realize. We have grown apart and our relationship is more of a big brother type, but he still wants to date. All of my sisters love him. He is a big brother to everyone of us! We have known each other three years but he and Ernie are in the same fraternity (they are pledge brothers) and that makes things weird too (I don't date around fraternities but he is such a good guy).
#4-John- My ex from 5 years ago. Won't date me til I move home for good from college. We talk long distance constantly and he is my best friend through everything. He knows EVERYTHING about me. Kind of closed off emotionally and 150 miles away from me while in school. He and I are close and we are really cool with each other (we are getting married if we are both single in ten years)

Okay, so anyways, what do I do with these guys? I don't want to string anyone along, but it hurts cause I don't know what I am doing!! I hate dating anyways cause it hurts. I just wondered what it sounds like to you all I am thinking, cause I cannot figure it out!! HELP ME!