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Yikes! This is turning into my research paper, which I've barely started.....but...
I guess you'd have to define The One, which i would say is your one big love in your lifetime. Soulmate?? Maybe and maybe not. As someone said above, your best friend could be your soulmate but you'd never marry them. Now, many people say they've loved mulitiple times but the way I think, if you ever do meet The One, its a love that blows the rest of them away. (More than one person in the world could be a candidate to be The One, it's just a matter of which one you happen to meet.)
<just a pause to say this is so ridiculous, I feel like I'm explaining the rules to some huge fantasy game like Myst or something lol.."If you meet The One before so and so's turn you win the Sword of Love"....omg ok I need to stop>
Anyway, what I'm saying is this guy who is only Mr. One of Convienience wouldn't give the same feeling as your actual One....or maybe they would but it wouldn't last. Either way the one great love or perfect person you were intended to be with would still be at large b/c the person of convienience sidetracked you. (laughing hystericallly now b/c this is so hard to explain)
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