My big and I are not close we say hi and have "small talk" kind of conversations.....................I have like 6 or 7 littles...........my first has kinda distanced her self from the sorority shes not as active and etc ..............my 2nd everyone loves and shes the social head she kinda treats me like everyone else though............my 3rd quit because she wanted to be devoted to her other sorority................my 4th isan adopted big sis her big may or may not come back but shes half mine either way it goes because her big couldn't afford her towards the end of the new member period and we aren't close but we talk small talk some..........my 5th and I are very close on her application she put my name as the answer to how she heard about ASA ort something so I guess I kinda recruited her we joke around a lot and shes friends with some of my non greek friends............my 6th and I are not too too close............we got each other christmas presents and stuff but we don't hang out much out side of ASA events.......my chapter doesn't really promote having close friendships with bigs/littles...........if you want to you can but they don't care and noone has any money so the few that do or whoever has someone they want is who usually takes another little and since my financial situation usually allows me tio take one i usually take one which is why i have 6 lils

But I would do anything for them or anyone of my sisters...............i love ASA!!!!!!!!!!!