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Originally posted by AKA2D '91:
To play devil's advocate...
What about her sexual behavior? What about your sexual behavior? The only thing that one should be concerned with is the HERE AND NOW!
"Good Girl?" definition please...  All that is GOOD AIN'T GOLD! LOL
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Good point Soror. I admire what Professor is saying, and I feel that women should hold the same view. To turn it into a woman's perspective: If a man immediately tries to woo you into bed, he is not a man that should be considered for a long lasting relationship. It's an indication of his sexual behaviors.
My question is, why is it that if a female approaches a male and offeres sex, so many of them are quick to jump on it? And "it's a male thing" is not an acceptable answer. That indicates the easiness of men also. Is this man marriage material? Can he maintain self control after he is married, since he has so little control before he was married? We know that once a male is involved in a relationship, he will be approached by all kinds of women. What assurance do women have that a man will not "jump" at every advance, other than what we've seen exhibited?
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