Wonderful1908 says:
Until recently I would have agreed with most people on this thread that sex is a matter of personal choice (and eventually it is). I think that because we have grown up in a society and in a generation where sex is sad to say, not as sacred an act as it is meant to be, it has become something that we don't concern ourselves with seriuosly.
I agree 100% But unfortunately, sex is (today) just sex. It is as meaningful as the two persons involved make it. However, when it comes to sex, etc. I agree with Ex do what YOU feel, if you want it go for it. There are no real rules except for the ones you establish. You could have sex the 1st night and be together forever or wait till you are married and realize that it wasn't all it cracked up to be.(Ever had this happen ladies? *chuckle chuckle*)

It's all give and take....