Biological clocks are exploding!!!

AKA_Monet · #1 03-30-2001, 09:45 PM

Is it okay for a 30-something or for that matter, a 28 and above unmarried, heterosexual woman to feel so compelled that she needs to go out there and consciously get pregnant by any man--(anything, nowadays) to meet the needs of her biological clock that is about to explode???

I ask, because too many of my unmarried, heterosexual 30-something girlfriends have done just that to either "get a man to commit" or that they are getting up there in age and better do something quick! Then, after the child is born, gets a little older, these same women realize how tough it is to maintain familial continuity without any man.

I'm not talking about women who have been divorced or their man left them or they are widowers. I'm talking about women who literally make sure to take the ovulation test to ensure conception... And uh-oh, I did a boo-boo--NO-- it is NOT an accident when your are 30 years old!!! You had better know where babies come from!!! And I'm not trying to hear, I didn't know that taking the antibotics block the birth control pill's effectiveness... Just like a boxer, you need to protect yourself at all times!!! Either take birth control, or not. If you don't, you risk pregnancy and moreso, STI's...

I personally just think that the whole idea of "unwed 30 something biological clock explosion, gotta get me a man and have his child" is just skrait ugly!!! I think it is reckless and stupid on behalf of all parties involved, except the one who didn't ask to be here. And I hear my 30 something unwed mothers and my man-trappin' married mothers bitchin' and moanin' about how tough it is to take care of an accidently on purpose child. I'm just fed up!!!

But I wanna know what the brothers think!!!

Unmarried brothers: If your current girlfriend or a girl of whom you are intimate told you she is 3-5 months pregnant with your child, what would you do? What would you think?

These questions are mainly for brothers 28 and up. Younger bruhs, it's okay if you answer, but y'all can make mistakes--like, "oh, I didn't think it mattered if the condom broke and you're still menstruating..."

Oh and as for me, I have never been pregnant in my life. So I do not know how I will react if I got pregnant, since I am unmarried and a 30-something woman. But I would know how I got pregnant 'cuz I would have chosen to not use birth control (STI protection) and to take the risk, with eyes wide open... But I'd rather be like Sarah of Abraham and wait...