grrrrr
just need to vent.....we're having trouble keeping our house, because we have brothers and pledges who point-blank refuse to live there, and I have had it. We have a brother who refuses to move in, because he can't live without his housecleaner. We have another who is just plain pissy, and is paying double to live in his own place across town. Then there are a couple who refuse to leave the dorms, for reasons I really can't understand. They're rubbing off on our pledges, who are demanding to be allowed to live out of house, or be given singles, or some other outrageous thing. And the brothers in the house are angry, because they can't see why they should follow the rules when someone else flaunts them.
So what to do? I don't want to tell the brothers who are in violation they can't come to the house anymore, because I don't know how I would enforce it short of physically removing them. Same for the pledges- I don't know what to do with otherwise good guys who refuse to live in the house. This is one of those times I wish we had a national or an alumni corp. or something- someone else to be the bad guy, rather than the officers taking the blame all the time.
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