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Originally posted by Afrochic
I'm speaking from a woman's point of view because I am that. I never said it wasn't his responsibility. What I'm saying is Trishelle needs to be responsible for Trishelle. We live in the day and time where you see single mothers daily with no fathers in sight. We see a high number of women with STD's and AIDS cases on the rise. Yes both parties need to think about protection because they are engaging in a mutual act, but I am speaking from a female's pov, not the if "I were a guy" pov. So bottom line, she shouldn't say "we need to use condoms," laugh it off and continue. It's not about what he wants, YOU protect YOU because YOU suffer the consequences when YOU don't make wise choices. Again, this is speaking from a woman's perspective.
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Well, I am a woman, speaking from a woman's point of view too. In relation to this discussion, I am saying that both SHOULD take responsibility because most people have been saying Trishelle is trifflin' for not protecting herself, but not too many have said anything about Steve. It's common sense that each individual has to look out for him or herself. My point is, BOTH are responsible for protecting themselves, when it boils down to it, which is still saying, YOU have to protect YOU. I think Steve is just as trifflin' as Trishelle, because he doesn't seem to be slightly concerned about protecting himself (and that's coming from a woman's point of view.
But, the bottom line is, if you think about it, we are both saying the same thing... EACH person should look out for herself (or himself)
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