ok so i have another dating problem for you to read. it's more of a vent but any advice would be greatly appreciated too.
So way back in august I met this guy. Awesome person to talk to, respectful, funny, talented, has similar interests, same major, musician, and of course... HOT! We dated casually for about a month. I thought this guy was too good to be true and thought things were gonna get serious. However in September, he told me he had started dating someone else and gave me the 'lets just be friends' speech. I was hurt of course.
Now days I am still very good friends with him but still have a large crush on him. He never mentions that he is dating someone else or that he has a girlfriend so i began to wonder if he still had one. And I can't imagine when he would have the time for one in his busy schedule. He does a lot of favors for me and even things that I wouldn't expect him to do. (Like completely edit a scholarship essay and then sit down and talk to me about it.)
My problem is since he is a musician, he is playing a show in about 2 weeks. He invited me to go along with some of my other graphic design friends and told me to bring lots of people. I really love his music and want to go and support him. However, if he has a girlfriend, she is bound to be there too. And hopefully others can agree, if you see your crush/guy you dated/ex/whatever with another person, you get jealous. And knowing how I am, I usually either get really emotional, won't stop staring, or will just start talking trash.
I would like to bring up my problem to him but I don't know how without making things weird between us. My assumption is that he thinks that I am over him and to go and tell him that I would be jealous of him and his gf because I still like him might throw an unwanted curve. And the real problem is that I don't even know if he is dating another girl. So I may be just freaking out for nothing.
What's a girl to do?
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