de-activating?

[jharb]

I am considering deactivating from Pi Phi. I don't want to have to deal with all the petty stuff involved with this house any more. If I'm going to be taken to Angel Support Board over things like my roommate and I are being too exclusive and we're too loud/giggly then I don't want to be a part of this house. The head of ASB when giving our "second warning", when we didn't get a true first warning, told us that we were being warned because we're too loud and we're too exclusive.
For one I'm carrying 21 credit hours, a job that requires 16 hours a week minumum and still active in the house. I'm hardly ever here, how can I make that much noise?! My roommate is here, but when she's in our room alone she's not loud. We see each other for a few hours a day and supposedly we're so noisy in those hours we shouldn't be in the house. If the few hours I am in this house I want to hang out with a small group of people then I should be able to. We aren't even being given a chance to explain ourselves and it's very unfair.
I really did love this house and I was going to run for VP Moral or Recording Secretary. Now I don't want to be on exec anymore, I don't want to be a part of this house and I don't want to be around the girls in the house right now. The whole thing just doesn't seem right. I don't even feel comfortable asking freshmen over to rush because I don't want them to come here, I want to tell them to get as far away from this house as possible.

Jess