We have a girl who wants to associate with our chapter. She seems nice enough so we decided that we'd call her reccomendations. We called her chapter and they ( the president) said she's in good standing technically. Technically? Come to find out, she got caught in a bit of mischief with a boy. OK fine haven't we all been caught kissing, whatever. But then-and this is the part that bothers me- the girl on the phone goes "I mean if you don't mind your sisters dating black guys." WHAT??? Basically the gist of this is that she was caught kissing a black guy in the down stairs parlor of the house.It seems to me that the other chapter was more worried about it being a black guy than the fact they were kissing.I know there are racist people in world. And as much as they irritate me-they do have the right to their opinion. But I just could not believe this girl admitted this to me-a total stranger (Just b/c your in the same group doesn't mean your all the same)on the phone!!!!!!!!! Also, I could not believe that this day in age someone would make that statement and in the next breath bragg about how great their groups is. I am so iritated. Now I feel that if we don't let her affiliate (which we were probably going to do-but you never know-we want to get to knoe HER better-not her "rep")we are being just as racist. I haven't said anything to anyone else yet, but I do have two messages on machine right now "So what did X chapter say about Suzie Q?" I mean this came from a VERY prestigious & old group(single letter chapter) on a BIG greek campus.
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