I'm sorry that you have had such bad alumnae experiences. I think that 33 girl is right on target (as usual

) about the alumnae confusion. These women were out of line to be so rude to the chapter sisters especially the sister that they grilled. I don't understand that type of behavior. I mean do these alumnae think that they will receive another invitation after they treated the sisters so rudely?

They forget that when they walked by or into the sorority house, they were walking into a home. They should have behaved like guests and respected the residents. If they had a problem, they could have resolved it in the future at another place and time. They should have appreciated the effort you put forth and plan an even bigger and better reunion for next time. Now the sisters probably hope there won't be a next time.