Ladies:
Don't be embarrased about being waxed! Thats the waxers job. It really doesn't hurt that much I swear!!! I've never had any burns or bumps and the redness is gone by the next day. I always used to shave everything bald but it in no way compares to waxing. I only have to wax every 4-6 weeks as compared to shaving every other day.
Gentlemen:
I think things definetely need to be trim down there especially the 'twins' as someone put it! A little bit can be left up on top but thats just about all I want to see.