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Originally posted by sbhill2
Im a pledge and I dont wear letters even though I can just because I dont know the full meaning behind them yet. Our pledge class has talked about this and we all feel the same way. As for pins, we aren't required to wear them at all but if we do, then they ask us to look nicer than everyday clothes. I dont think its hazing to not let them wear letters before intitiation - I think it helps them to value the meaning once they can wear them and fully understand what it means to wear those letters.
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I love your line of thinking because this is kind of our reasoning for not letting our new members wear letters until initiation. our girls also have to wear the pins all the time. There are the 3 S's where they don't necessarily have to (sleep, shower, sex) but I wore that pin on my bathrobe in the dorms because I was told to wear it ALL THE TIME. (Different times, i suppose)