Leslie AGD~ thanks!
CarolinaCutie~ my Phi sisters (the names have all changed now) didn't impress me all that much, either. Big/Little week was really different, though. We're not all that close, but she spoiled me rotten! I think it's partly that the secret sisters you get before your Big may not develop as close a relationship as is expected between Big/ Lil. Something else to think of is finances. If they didn't do much in comparison to others, maybe it's because they just couldn't or didn't have much spare time. I'm sorry that you feel cheated, from the sounds of your post, with your secret sis experiences. I'm sure your Big will spoil you!