I agree with what everyone has been saying.....I would like to make another point. Just as there are sororities that aren't known for having the richest and prettiest girls, there are fraternities going through the same thing. At my school, there were 7 sororities and 13 fraternities when I was an active. Nearly half of that fraternity number was composed of chapters that the "popular" sororities never even gave a thought to. These guys were dying for a chance to mix and meet some of the girls, and I dare say that most of them were a LOT sweeter and more genuine than the pretty-boys. Now I am speaking through that 20-20 hindsight, because I was fortunate to belong to a chapter that was viewed as "hot," and at the time I too was only interested in dating guys from the top few fraternities. But my point here is that you have to be careful not to take the same shallow attitude that some of these fraternities do......investigate, maybe as a pledge class, find out which fraternities maybe don't get asked to do as much. I promise you there are some out there who would love to get to know you all better and I promise that there are fun, friendly, good-looking gentlemen to be had.
By the way, (gotta rant here....) since when is blonde hair a prerequisite for beauty? Geez, this isn't 1975!!!!!! I must admit, I belonged to a "blonde" sorority (and they still are) but we had a number of beautiful brunettes (including myself.) Delta Gamma, which is extremely well thought of and considered very "hot" among the guys is a very brunette chapter.....they have a bunch of girls from the dance team and every one of them is tanned, gorgeous, and dark. I certainly don't intend to start a blonde vs. brunette debate........we all know the jokes and the stereotypes and it doesn't need to be rehashed again......but I just wish when people refer to pretty sororities or pretty girls they would eliminate that word. I have seen a lot of really butt-ugly girls in my 30 years and a large number of them happened to be blonde.
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