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If you are feeling really uncomfortable with this house, and you don't like the "pledge activities" going on, leave asap. No one should have to submit to that. However, if you enjoy some of the other girls company and might wanna stick it out, bring it to the house's attention and say: Hey I don't feel comfortable doing this. If the house analyzes their program and doesn't make you drink anymore, things might get a lil better. However, if you say something and no action is taken, don't stick around to see what the rest of the semester holds. Ask your fellow new members. Ask what they think about the new member program.
My house had a really bad semester one semester and it took that one semester for us to completely change the way our new member program worked. Hopefully if your house gets a wake up call, they will change a bit.
You can also bring up the issue to your Greek advisor.
As for joining a national after quitting a local... it's possible. You may have to wait til the next recruitment period tho. I don't know how your school works with recruitment. It may be in bad taste (or even against the rules) to quit the local now and COB the national. But it's up to you and again... i don't know where you go to school.
Do what is right for you. If you dont feel comfortable and you do what you can to try and figure out why your sisters are doing this to you, I wouldn't stick around.
Hope that helps.
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