Twist on Legacy

[zetagirly]

I am a legacy and am in a great house but here is an interesting twist. I HATED having everyone knowing I am a legacy and did not go the house that I am a legacy at on purpose. The reason I did that is because it would have always been in the back of my mind that they maybe took me onlye because I was a legacy and not because they really like me for me.

My boyfriend is also a legacy and his brother was a great brother of his fraternity and he is convinced that the only reason they took him is because of his brother. I love my boyfriend to death and can't believe he thinks that about himself and it breaks my heart.

Has anyone had the same feelings about that?