Losing Friends
I've been thinking a ton about recruitment lately, and something has been bothering me. Last year, as a non-greek, I made several very good non-greek friends. However, many of them, two in particular, are not only non-greek, they are ANTI-greek.
One was planning on rushing with me, even after a very unfortunate incident with a fraternity boy. I guess during the summer she changed her mind, because now she speaks very venomously of the system. She bashes it even in front of me, and she knows how excited I am about going greek.
My other friend has been super anti-greek from the very beginning and has left little room for discussion. She talks all the time about how she thinks we aren't going to be nearly as good of friends next year b/c I'll be hanging out with my sorority all the time.
There are countless conversations and factors that compound and complicate the situation, but this is the bare bones version of it. I know I'm going to spend tons of time and effort next year with my sorority sisters, because I LOVE being active and involved. I feel terrible at the possibility of alienating my independent friends though.
Anyone got two cents?
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