Slightly Introducing Myself

[1992emerald]

Hey everyone! I’m an Alpha Sigma Tau from a college in central PA. I joined this organization because I needed a support group. I’m here to just get some clarity and advice from members in the Greek Life community. I’m trying not to give too much about myself away, but I’m very hopeful for this experience. Anyway, I became a Big sister in the spring of 2019 to two Littles, both of which I adore wholeheartedly. My one little comes to me for everything and I really appreciate that she involves me in every aspect of her life. My other little however, relies more on an alum and I don’t feel like her Big all that much. I do know that not all Big/Little relationships are the same but I figured that was a good starting point. My 2nd Little seems to misinterpret everything I say and no matter how hard I try to fix it, I just feel like she’s drifting further and further away from me. I really don’t know what to do anymore, and I’m starting to feel completely left out of my organization.

I figured advice from sisters outside of my organization as well as alum and advisors would be beneficial for me and my mental health.