How to Tell if the Conversation Was Genuine or NOT????

[midwesterng!rl2]

Originally Posted by 33girl

You were, to quote you, super involved in other multiple organizations, and there was not one single solitary sorority member in any of them?

There were never any sorority or fraternity philanthropies that involved the campus as a whole?

You were never in class with any sorority women?

I find these things hard to believe.

You have to put yourself out there, and it doesn’t sound like you did at all. I’m not trying to be harsh or mean, but people advised you what to do and that’s all we can do for you.

I completely understand & I really appreciate everyone's advice and input! I'm looking for as many opinions as I can get to try and make sense of my situation. I was involved in 3 clubs last year and one had about 8 members and none were in sororities. The other 2 clubs if there were women in sororities I didn't get to meet them. I can't always tell who is in a sorority or not some people rarely wear their letters, and if they do they're usually in a group with other Greek women. To me it's kind of intimidating to infiltrate their circle. I don't know where to find Greek events that are open to everyone for their philanthropy .

Going forward in your opinion, how would you go about befriending some Greek women? You can't exactly force someone to be your friend, so it's not like if I see a woman wearing letters in class I can go up to her and immediately be her best friend, unless that's exactly what I should do? Any tips or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!