Still questioning release from recruitment years later

[DGTess]

I keep seeing in your posts, purplemonkey, a desire to find your deep friendships. Those aren't exclusive to sororities. You seem to think if you'd been able to pledge, you'd have found something in a friendship that you didn't find with other friends.

I think that's doubtful.

You are who you are, and your friends are who they are. If you can't call those friends for an ice-cream sundae on a Thursday morning, or a quick trip to the beach house, why do you think sorority women would have been any different?

Sororities aren't magic. They provide a little more structure and ritual for friendships, but they don't change the nature of true friendships.