Rushing for the THIRD TIME; My Story + Advice for PNMs

[lowcountryPNM]

For so long, like so many other girls my age I have been obsessed with rankings, and whether I am smart enough or pretty enough to get into the best colleges or the best sorority. I took their rejection of me personally and put myself under a microscope, looking for ways I could artificially improve myself to become "good enough." Yet, in the end, it didn't matter. I set myself up for failure by choosing nothing, instead of the women who chose me. I let myself be guided by my insecurity, rather than my instincts. Instead of working on letting my true personality shine through, I tried to create the image I thought the sororities wanted. And I ended up alone and disappointed.

Best of luck to all PNMs!


edit- Can't figure out how to delete this thread, I deleted most of the text because it contained some identifying information. Sorry.