Confused!

[lmh621]

Ok,I've never been to big into the whole sorority thing. I mean, I started to rush at IU and being in a sorority isn't what I really want. I did 19 party and thought all the girls were nice, but I still can't see myself actually 'living' in a sorority. So I made the decision to not go back and finish rush. Now my parents are pressuring me, like crazy! I'm a legacy at a house and they kept saying it will make your grandma happy. But its my choice right? I shouldn't rush to make other people happy? Even though I love my grandma I just wish and don't want joining a sorority to be the way I show my love. And that's how my parents were making me feel. So does anyone have any advice? or words of wisdom? Thanx!