Ok, this is a relationship quesiton:
I've been dating this guy for about 2 years exclusively.. things are going great, but pretty soon (in a short amount of days) he will be graduating from college, and I will be transferring to another school.
Originally, he was going to go to the school I am going to transfer to, so that he can do some grad work and maybe get a job in that area. Unfortunately I don't think the grad school is going to work out because the school just told him he was missing stuff in his application (by the way, that stuff he is missing was NEVER mentioned on the application or anything)
So now everything has changed
He may be going home for a few weeks to find a job there or to use home as a place to sleep while he drives to Texas every other day to find jobs/interviews to be closer.
Well, I am totally devastated!!! I thought everything was going to work out so perfectly! And I'm really sad to see him go. I have 2 more years of college left, and I really want to stay with him.
Am I silly for wanting him to be close to me? I know it sounds kinda selfish, but I can't help but feel that way. I really care about him so much.
Engagement/marriage isn't in the picture anytime soon because we both agreed that we want to both be out of college so that we can have steady income.. but seeing people get engaged at this school.. and so in love... makes me want some sort of reassurance that we're not going to break up
Sorry for this being super long
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