I am sorry if I am bringing up an old question, but I have gone through rush twice already. I was just wondering if the fact that I have not gotten a bid means that I should stop rushing. I love going to the events and meating new people. Later on I see them in my classes, and some of the girls have bacome my good friends

, but I don't want to start annoying people. I have some friends in Fraternities in other schoold, and they told me that if they don't give a prospective a bid right away, then they definitely don't want him in thair house.