What to say to PNM?

[AGDAlum]

If you were having a "coke date" with a PNM what would you say about your NPC group?

I am meeting a friend and her daughter for coffee tomorrow afternoon. The daughter has registered for recruitment at U of I and I offered to write a rec for her. My friend is in another NPC group, though her chapter was at another university. I didn't go to U of I, either, so I'll be talking about Alpha Gamma Delta more generally.

Thanks for your advice!