As a IU mom of a sophomore also participating in rush, my advice to the moms and daughters who are wavering - accept your bid, try it. Tonight's going to be a lot of fun when you meet your chapters. If it ends up not being a good fit - you don't have to initiate, simple as that, but you may end up being pleasantly surprised. You are bound for a year to that organization regardless if you accept or decline at this point By signing your card, you actually agreed to accept your bid. If you don't initiate you can still participate in formal recruitment next year, but don't expect any miraculous differences. It will actually look worse next year if you go through recruitment and they know you declined your bid this year and Greeks do talk to each other. Good luck with your choices.
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