Is there a place for non-members to volunteer?

[LAblondeGPhi]

What about just getting involved in social organizations aimed at the young professional female demographic? Junior League, Spinsters, etc. Or a structured volunteer organization that hits close to home?

If you want to help out young university women, why not try the career center or mental health centers to volunteer as a mock interviewer or mentor of some kind?

Also, given your interest in the area, are you considering a career in college administration? It sounds like a job as a student activities coordinator or director of student life would be right up your alley. At some (many?) smaller schools, the Greek Life would fall under a more general director role, giving you the opportunity to get involved that you seem to be looking for.