I agree. Encourage her to give it a chance. She is not allowed to rush for a year, so she needs to make a huge effort by going over to the house for meals or just hanging out. She needs to give herself time to meet other members and make friends with girls in her new member class. When initiation time comes around, if she is still not happy, then she should speak to her big sister and her pledge trainer and tell them how she feels and then she should decide if she wants to drop or go thru with the initiation.
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