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Originally Posted by 33girl
Actually, no, I meant he shouldn't join anything other than professional groups. Grad school is hard and while he thinks he's got the time management issue resolved, grad school may turn that on its head.
But I think this may all be moot as his social skills need work.
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Speaking as someone who was initiated through a graduate chapter (and in a close circle of friends who also did so), that is not necessarily true. I decided to take a semester off from school (not knowing if I would even be chosen). But my friend was in grad school, working and working towards being in his frat at the same time. It's about balance and making a way out of no way. He did fine in school and was initiated. My other friends also did so while having babies/children in the house. It all depends on the person and the org.
However...one has to research and diligent in finding out their own info. That's what I did!