I feel guilty for posting good news, but here it is... My daughter got a bid to Theta Phi Alpha and she's very excited! I only got to talk to her briefly so I didn't find out what the mood was in her dorm, but I assume it's ugly.
Don't feel guilty. It is not your fault the system at IU is broken. Congratulations to your daughter, and I hope she has a BLAST tonight. Post pics if you get 'em.