The fun started for me when I got my Big. Until then, it was just kind of a blur of pledge (yeah- I'm old! LOL!) meetings and crafting events. We did a lot of get to know you, but I'm kind of shy so it took me longer to feel at home.
The bonds come from shared experiences- when you start studying with these girls, eating meals with them, meeting up at the gym and doing things on the weekends, you will begin to really feel like part of the group. Silly college things like group study sessions for midterms or late night trips to the 24 hour store or diner. Take every opportunity to be social with the girls, not only at the sorority events, but outside of them. Try to find a niche or group you feel comfortable with, or some other new members.
If all this happens and you still don't...you can decide what you want to do the .
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* Winter * "Apart" of isn't the right term...it is " a_part_of"...
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