sorority life as a mom?

[StetsonsMommy92]

I pledged in the fall of 2011 to the Delta Delta chapter of ADPi. However i had to return hoke from college due to medical reasons. Upon doing so they made me an alum but i got a paper stating if i went back to a university that had an ADPi chapter I had to join. Well upon coming home i got pregnant and now have a 10 month old son. My goal is to return back to Fayetteville next fall and id love nothing more to return to my sisters. My question is do the bylaws allow mothers tobe active members? This is very near n dear to my heart and i never really got to experience the sorority life, bond, and experiences as in having my own littlw and being on the opposite side of the recruitment.