I am trying to obtain rec letters for my rush this fall. I only have a few so far. I went online to my city's alumni panhellenic association to get rec letters for the sororities that I don't have any for. On the website it said that they would help you obtain them by following some steps. After emailing back and forth the person I was in contact with told me they do not do rec letters anymore the way they used to, so basically what the website said was wrong. Initially, she asked to meet with me to write a rec letter, however, the sorority she alumni for does not exist at my school and I don't think she understood what I had been asking regarding what their website says. So I clarified my question and in the end she told me I could just send her my resume to have on file incase the sororities at my school contact them for records, so I did that.
I have contacted a few teachers from my senior year who are writing some for me, my mom's friend is possibly going to write one and my best friend's mom will also.
I am stuck here though. I would like to get letters for all of the sororities at my school but I do not know anyone else and I already tried to contacts to alumni association. Should I go to the individual chapter associations or is that uncommon? At my school recs are not required and many girls get into their top choices without them but they help you stand out so I would really like to get all of them.
Please help give me suggestions as to what I should try next!!
Thanks!