Kayfaith, my mom is black and my dad is white and I'm planning to go through recruitment at a southern school as well. My mom is a member of a D9 sorority but really steered me toward NPC because of the hazing. Plus I like the fact that most of the panhellenic sororities have been around longer; so much tradition.
Like me, you probably learned to act one way around your white friends and family and another way around your black friends and family. We're chameleons, right? lol Depending on how I wear my makeup and hair and how I dress, I look like either a black girl without a decent bootie and good hair or a white girl with a dark tan so naturally I'll emphasize the latter aspect of how I look. I don't feel that I'm turning my back on my heritage because I'm 1/2 of each.
The bottom line is, if you feel comfortable with yourself the girls you meet during rush will pick up on that. So just be yourself, of whichever version of yourself you feel like being that day and have a good time
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