Dropping Right After Rush
At my university, we just had rush last week. I unfortunately signed to a fraternity Tuesday. I recieved bids from several, but sort of felt obligated and was a tad bit "guilt tripped" into signing with this one. I quickly realized (hours later really) after meeting most of the brothers that this one is not for me at all. We have our "pledge ceremony" next week.
I was wondering are you possibly allowed to drop a fraternity and maybe resign with another one the same semester with a potential mid-semester recruitment situation? I know this makes me sort of an a*shole and I feel bad dropping one just to join another, but this fraternity is a huge disappointment. I was also wondering how another fraternity would feel about recruiting someone who recieved a bid from them, but denied it initially. I would guess they would be hesitant and judge my loyalty and I realize this kind of makes me look like a "quitter," but i'm not at all. I'm the complete opposite of unloyal and a quitter. This is just a really sh*tty situation.
I only signed with IFC (at rush) so I haven't been "initiated" or anything. I have only been signed for 5 days.
Appreciate it you guys.
Last edited by razor12; 02-03-2013 at 09:12 PM.
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