If you're nervous about being associated with a bad reputation, didn't you just answer your question?
Why would you want to associate yourself with something bad?
Now, things do look different on the inside, though, so some things come with a grain of salt. Nonetheless, if these are rumors that you're hearing and are concerned about, you could either ask one of the brothers that you trust about the rumors or just not affiliate with those organizations.
Also, because Greek organizations are their own little realm, you are bound to cut yourself off from some things. Being Greek is consuming. BUT, you will open up yourself to many more opportunities and people that you never thought you'd experience.
So there's my advice. Take it how you desire.
Finally, as a bit of a side note, if you're really that concerned about joining the "gay fraternity" and your reputation with that, you have a bit more that you need to work through.
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