*shrug*
Umm...yeah....celibate....sure.....lol
Sex is not something you do indiscriminately but I am female, and of the opinion that it is important in a relationship.
I agree with Swamp Thang. If a woman wants no sex, then she should look for a man who wants the same thing, rather than get involved in a relationship that will ultimately make one or both parties unhapppy and/or resentful.
A man who is not celibate might SAY that he'll wait, but if that is NOT something he's looking for then you are just setting yourself up for heartbreak. When some hoochie sees that he's taken and decides she wants him, it'll be that much easier for him to stray, because he knows he can get what he REALLY wants from her.
No offense gentlemen, but when it comes to sex, I just don't think most men in my age group are particularly responsible, and as such the idea of them waiting for a woman is questionable.
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