i rushed last year, and i lived in the house. at first i thought it was great, but the more i think about it, i wonder why i am even part of the sorority. my sisters are so uptight and bitchy, and since i was an officer i was bitched at/to A LOT. i am beginning to think about depinning because our sorority lacks the unity it needs to work together, we lost a lot of girls 1st and 2nd semester, and everyone is discouraged because we have no socials, no mixers, and one semi-formal. the officers we do have just can't seem to get it together to plan stuff for the sisters to do, so it ended up the house girls making arrangements for parties with frats or teams our boyfreinds were in, instead of the actual officer planning what she was supposed to do. no one wants to live in the house anymore, which results in further arguments, and the president complains non-stop about how depressed she is because of the work she has. i do not know what to do, i feel like giving up, but i love the sisters i got from my pledge class...and i feel like my dues are being wasted. what can i possibly do?