Questions from a novice to all things Fraternity

[Football74]

Thanks for all of the responses - I really appreciate them. I understand how I should join the fraternity where most of the brothers are "like me", but with a limited time spent talking to the members of the fraternities, I feel it will be hard to judge how they act and such. I am fairly certain my school has an orthodox rushing process (2nd round invites back, 3rd round invites back, then smokers or bid round whatever it's called), but I guess the "vibe" will be there.

Anyway, thank you to all.